My school going son wants me to be modern – please advice

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  • #9875

    Vandana
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    Hi,

    I am new to the forums. I saw topics here being discussed which are not usually discussed anywhere. Hence posting the unique issue that i am facing.
    recently we had a parents meeting in my son`s school. Most of the parents were there. Even I went. When we cam back my son is demanding me to be more modern. like moms of other kids. but the examples he is giving, those moms are too modern for me.they wear one piece dresses and have short hair. I have no idea what to do.
    Please advice. Anyone else faced this issue?

  • #9876

    KVijay
    Participant

    Welcome dear

  • #9877

    Venkat
    Participant

    Hello vandana garu first of all welcome to you.modern means u can look modern in many ways. If you r not interested in dresses u try for different short haircuts which is very common now a days

  • #9878

    Vandana
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    Venkat Sir
    I always had long hair. So no idea what i will do. Also i dont think its just haircut. My son wants me to completely change. Looks like he is ashamed of my traditional looks.

  • #9879

    Venkat
    Participant

    Vandana garu at a time complete change means not possible so first u try some modern dresses and u try first funky haircut or long bob haircut u can slowly change ur look in this way

  • #9880

    KVijay
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    Haircut is nt at all needed. U r wrong Mr. Vekant. We do have long haired celebrities. They r quite modern.

  • #9881

    Venkat
    Participant

    Vijay she wants to be modern not to be a celebrity so I suggested an idea

  • #9883

    Vandana
    Participant

    Venkat Sir,

    You maybe right. I should try one thing at a time.
    I tried to speak to my son. but it seems he has taken matter to his heart. I am not sure if he is going to be ok with just one change. kids these days !!

  • #9884

    Venkat
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    Vandana garu as I said u try one by one first u try some modern dresses then u can try haircut so when you r starting for change?

  • #9885

    Shilpa
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    Vandana Mam,

    You can borrow some female friends clothes and try it…. Also there are some apps where you can put your pic and see ehich typenof haircut suits you…. So once you have some idea, only then do something in real only if you are comfortable. Else your son also has to understand that he will not get everything he wants in his life. This is also important.

  • #9886

    KVijay
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    Vandana u dnt reply on private msgs?

  • #9887

    Anand tiwari
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  • #9895

    Vandana
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    Guys – I shared my concerns with husband and one of my female friend who is also friend of my husband. This weekend I tried wearing a knee length one piece dress for first time in my life. it was a very different experience. Initially I was scared but later everything was normal.

  • #9896

    Vandana
    Participant

    Anand Sir – Sorry cannot come to bengalaru
    Kvijay sir – sorry, i m not online much.
    Venkat sir – i am implementing in small steps. hopefully in some days my son will forget it, till then i will try something small. Very good suggestion . Thank you.

  • #9903

    Venkat
    Participant

    Oh it’s really good to hear from you yes it is better to start with small things.so when you r implementing the first idea?

  • #9905

    Venkat
    Participant

    Vandana garu any update regarding ur one piece dress

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